Books

The three top selling bdsm books for each subject listed below to help you in your search:

BDSM Books (instructional)

1. Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism

2. SM 101: A Realistic Introduction

3. Jay Wiseman's Erotic Bondage Handbook

Dominance and Submission

1. Different Loving : A Complete Exploration of the World of Sexual Dominance and Submission

2. The Loving Dominant

3. The Art of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women

Interested in fictional books with a bdsm theme? Following are the most popular bdsm novels:

1. The Sleeping Beauty Novels

2. The Story of O

3. Carrie's Story

In conclusion: Use common sense. Learning safety and bdsm activity skills from books is encouraged but be sure to take it slow. Better to be cautious than injured. Regarding dominance and submission.....that is more personal . Books may inspire you and offer some ideas but keep in mind to make the experience your own. Reality trumps fiction any day.