The three top selling bdsm books for each subject listed below to help you in your search:
BDSM Books (instructional)
1. Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism
2. SM 101: A Realistic Introduction
3. Jay Wiseman's Erotic Bondage Handbook
Dominance and Submission
1. Different Loving : A Complete Exploration of the World of Sexual Dominance and Submission
2. The Loving Dominant
3. The Art of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women
Interested in fictional books with a bdsm theme? Following are the most popular bdsm novels:
1. The Sleeping Beauty Novels
2. The Story of O
3. Carrie's Story
In conclusion: Use common sense. Learning safety and bdsm activity skills from books is encouraged but be sure to take it slow. Better to be cautious than injured. Regarding dominance and submission.....that is more personal . Books may inspire you and offer some ideas but keep in mind to make the experience your own. Reality trumps fiction any day.
Wednesday, July 23, 2008
Saturday, July 12, 2008
Bound
Bound
Author: Sammie © Feb. 28, 2008
Used With Permission Of The Author(s)
Feel the pressure on your skin,
Of ropes so pleasantly digging in.
Can hardly move but that is fine,
Just know my dear that you are mine.
Author: Sammie © Feb. 28, 2008
Used With Permission Of The Author(s)
Feel the pressure on your skin,
Of ropes so pleasantly digging in.
Can hardly move but that is fine,
Just know my dear that you are mine.
Pleasure Dance
Pleasure Dance
Author: Raven Shadowborne © 1999
Pleasure and pain intertwined
sadistic orchestration played upon my flesh
moans, gasps, screams
white hot fire
raging lava surges through my veins
body arching to meet each note
as you play them on my skin
masochistic lust satisfied
my body craves your touch
carsses, soft and gentle
warm hands massaging silken flesh
my body craves your pain
stinging slaps
burning scratches
animal lust takes over
I lay naked before you
vulnerable to your whims
trembling beneath your hands
begging for more
Lines between pleasure and pain blur
limits are no more
wanting to take all you offer
and more.
Author: Raven Shadowborne © 1999
Pleasure and pain intertwined
sadistic orchestration played upon my flesh
moans, gasps, screams
white hot fire
raging lava surges through my veins
body arching to meet each note
as you play them on my skin
masochistic lust satisfied
my body craves your touch
carsses, soft and gentle
warm hands massaging silken flesh
my body craves your pain
stinging slaps
burning scratches
animal lust takes over
I lay naked before you
vulnerable to your whims
trembling beneath your hands
begging for more
Lines between pleasure and pain blur
limits are no more
wanting to take all you offer
and more.
Kajira
Kajira
Author: Sabryna © 1997
this one came to you today.
her heart to give to you.
You asked, of her,
what it means to be kajira.
this one thought her heart would
stop,
as she tried to put into words
what it meant to her.
kajira...a slave she thought
to be owned by a Master.
To be and to have nothing
but, that which the Master
wishes you to be or to have.
Then, this one gazed into your
eyes and what she saw there made her
realize that to be a kajira
is so much more.
to this one it means to give
into your care her heart,
her soul, her love...
Putting this ones complete
trust In you.
Knowing without a doubt,
you will always do what
you feel is best for her.
Helping her to grow and
learn.
Knowing you will always
be kind, gentle and fair.
Even when discipline is
necessary.
this one wishes to serve you
with all her heart, mind and
soul.
to bring honor to you. to make
you proud to call this one,
mira kajira.
This one wishes to be
kajira.
Author: Sabryna © 1997
this one came to you today.
her heart to give to you.
You asked, of her,
what it means to be kajira.
this one thought her heart would
stop,
as she tried to put into words
what it meant to her.
kajira...a slave she thought
to be owned by a Master.
To be and to have nothing
but, that which the Master
wishes you to be or to have.
Then, this one gazed into your
eyes and what she saw there made her
realize that to be a kajira
is so much more.
to this one it means to give
into your care her heart,
her soul, her love...
Putting this ones complete
trust In you.
Knowing without a doubt,
you will always do what
you feel is best for her.
Helping her to grow and
learn.
Knowing you will always
be kind, gentle and fair.
Even when discipline is
necessary.
this one wishes to serve you
with all her heart, mind and
soul.
to bring honor to you. to make
you proud to call this one,
mira kajira.
This one wishes to be
kajira.
male doms in movies
male doms and daddies also have rolemodels they can emulate:
A. Paul Muni in Scarface
B. Sean Connery as James Bond in many of the 007 films including Dr. No
C. Gert Frobe as Auric Goldfinger in Goldfinger
D. Christopher Lee as Dracula in the first three Hammer Dracula films including Dracula, Prince of Darkness
E. Marlon Brando as Don Corleone in The Godfather
F. Al Paccino as Michael Corleone in The Godfather, The Godfather Part II, and The Godfather Part III
G. Jimmy Cagney in Ragtime
H. Robert Deniro as Louis Cypher in Angel Heart
I. John Malkovich as the Vicomte de Valmont in Dangerous Liaisons
It's not the violence of these characters that interests me. Violence implies a loss of control and it's the control they display over their situations and themselves that I find fascinating. James Bond is unflappable even when facing certain death. Dracula doesn't need to open doors -- they open for him. Don Corleone doesn't raise his voice. When he has something to say, people listen.)
A. Paul Muni in Scarface
B. Sean Connery as James Bond in many of the 007 films including Dr. No
C. Gert Frobe as Auric Goldfinger in Goldfinger
D. Christopher Lee as Dracula in the first three Hammer Dracula films including Dracula, Prince of Darkness
E. Marlon Brando as Don Corleone in The Godfather
F. Al Paccino as Michael Corleone in The Godfather, The Godfather Part II, and The Godfather Part III
G. Jimmy Cagney in Ragtime
H. Robert Deniro as Louis Cypher in Angel Heart
I. John Malkovich as the Vicomte de Valmont in Dangerous Liaisons
It's not the violence of these characters that interests me. Violence implies a loss of control and it's the control they display over their situations and themselves that I find fascinating. James Bond is unflappable even when facing certain death. Dracula doesn't need to open doors -- they open for him. Don Corleone doesn't raise his voice. When he has something to say, people listen.)
Some great femme fatales
Role Models on Film: You can find some great role models on videos and DVDs. Some great femme fatales include:
Bridgette Helm as the Robot in the "Whore of Babylon" scene in Metropolis
Lousie Brooks as Lulu in Pandora's Box
Ludmilla Tchérina as Giulietta walking down the stairs in the Venice scene of Michael Powell's The Tales of Hoffman
Julia Migenes-Johnson dancing, singing, and acting as Carmen in Carmen
Alice Krieg as Alma Mobley in Ghost Story. (Her beautiful eyes are like dark pools where something is hiding.)
Glen Close as the Marquise de Merteuil in Dangerous Liaisons
Alice Krieg as the Borg Queen in Star Trek: First Contact
Michelle Pfeiffer as the Catwoman in Batman Returns
Each of these femme fatales display the assertiness, confidence, wit, gentleness, sadism, overt sensuality, subtle sexuality, and control that are the outward traits of a great domme.
Bridgette Helm as the Robot in the "Whore of Babylon" scene in Metropolis
Lousie Brooks as Lulu in Pandora's Box
Ludmilla Tchérina as Giulietta walking down the stairs in the Venice scene of Michael Powell's The Tales of Hoffman
Julia Migenes-Johnson dancing, singing, and acting as Carmen in Carmen
Alice Krieg as Alma Mobley in Ghost Story. (Her beautiful eyes are like dark pools where something is hiding.)
Glen Close as the Marquise de Merteuil in Dangerous Liaisons
Alice Krieg as the Borg Queen in Star Trek: First Contact
Michelle Pfeiffer as the Catwoman in Batman Returns
Each of these femme fatales display the assertiness, confidence, wit, gentleness, sadism, overt sensuality, subtle sexuality, and control that are the outward traits of a great domme.
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
Thoughts about Dom(mes)
If we want to be we can be a very powerful wom(men) **grins evily**. We have the ability to take people on journeys into places they have not been, and make them feel things they have never felt. But those things- the places, the feelings-already exist within the person. I have the ability to see the potential, to direct the journey, to shape its path-but I do not create something in people that was never there before. Each one of you has something special inside you- I can unlock that and bring it out.
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