Thoughts about Dom(mes)

If we want to be we can be a very powerful wom(men) **grins evily**. We have the ability to take people on journeys into places they have not been, and make them feel things they have never felt. But those things- the places, the feelings-already exist within the person. I have the ability to see the potential, to direct the journey, to shape its path-but I do not create something in people that was never there before. Each one of you has something special inside you- I can unlock that and bring it out.

Welcome...I am glad you are here

Wether you are Novice or an experienced Submissive,

 there are things you should know about me MistrexShivah. I have been doing dominance and submission and D/s for ten years in my life, then I went into a long break, I am still on break. 

I am playing Gor, because some parts inside me are missing it alltogether.  I was a "lifestyle" Mistress at some point in my life, although personally I dont care for that term. 

Very often in GOR I am asked what is D/s?

What I do say is:  that this dynamic, this way of relating to another person, the magic that can be created- it is very close to my heart, it is at the center of who I am.To me this encompasses the mind, body and soul. Here in Gor as well in our lives.

There are many ways of being a dominant. But I think there are misconception in the world about how one must behave to be a Domme. I am not an angry person. I do not hate men, and want to punish them out of hatred. I do not think of the men or women who come to me to RP slaves as inferior to me by definition. I love slaves......and I cherish every moment with them.....

I value the men and women who give me their submission. It is a gift of trust- and I do not abuse it. The things I do, if I play Gor may be physically or physologically intense, but I respect each invidials's stated limits, and no matter what, I do not cause permanent damage to anyone.

But I have to admit...playing GOR isnt as easy as I thought it would be, while playing GOR very often I am busy dealing with problems that RP comes along and I have to answer questions about D/s relationships or slaves in general. In RP is so much more to consider than when people meet in realife. 

The main reason for my blog is: trying to make things easier on all of us....I truly believe its difficult for all of us to RP on a screen...and demanding and fullfilling the owners wishes as well to play by the rules of GOR.

I certainly dont know it all....I share the little I know with valuable references and hopefully it will be helpful to all of us.